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Thinker13
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Posted 01/22/12 - 1:59 PM:
Subject: Like Button And Sick Smiley!
Most of us have observed this behaviour trait in our friends and colleagues. Yes, yes we have also found ourselves doing this (At least I have to admit that I have done this myself too often now to overlook!). We have all done this because this seems to be in vogue. What is so queer about it if you happen to look at it from a distance? Yes, it’s overlapping of communication modes.



I have found myself saying “I like your comment, “ with a thumb up in the air and that was not actually a coincidence, but rather an acknowledgement of the fact that the ‘Like’ button in Facebook has immense power and I miss it in conversations. It looks weird. Doesn’t it? Facebook is a social networking website and not a real time communication site; why then, should someone use a pattern which is exclusive to it, in a real time conversation? Is it, just to suggest that we are spending more time on social networking sites than in real world interacting with people made of flesh and bones? May be and maybe not. It might also mean that Facebook is wielding more power than real time interactions and hence trends are permeating through a thin layer into the real world from the virtual one.

Another similar observation: One of my friends suggested that he wanted to use ‘Sick Smiley’ for one of my comments. This smiley is used by us if we use Microsoft Office Communicator Suite for chatting. The chatting has overtaken conversations in real time in this case (at least in some aspects), so instead of saying that “your comments make me sick!” my friend simply says that he wants to insinuate towards that ‘Sick Smiley’, which we use in chatting. Now this is dramatic. As he insinuates he is actually making a strong point that he dislikes my comment and along with that he is also saying that the ‘Sick Smiley’ in itself is so powerful to suggest that words are not needed if you use it. Just a sick guy with a thermometer in his mouth says “Enough of your bullshit and I do not want to belabour this point anymore!” How powerful indeed!

I do not know if you really consider my observations to be significant observations. I do not know if I have asked a question worth answering, but if you see a question here; do help me with an answer. Thank you very much!
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Posted 01/24/12 - 12:02 PM:

i think facebook merely stumbled on an efficient way of showing acknowledgement or approval in the internet environment - the thumbs up. of course, the thumbs up existed before facebook, facebook merely popularized it. but one of the reasons i have a thumbs up icon in our collection of smileys is because of facebook.

when we communicate with each other face to face, we are accustomed to reading acknowledgement from each other with a nod of the head. the thumbs up communicates something similar, not just to say "yes i approve" or "yes i agree", but also it communicates "yes i understand what you're saying" and, "i acknowledge you".

i think a sick smiley would not be too clearly understood. someone might think "oh this person is not feeling well" rather than "they are sick of my remarks!"

i like the smileys that i've collected along the way, including: sisyphus confused disapproval mad shaking head raspberry whatever any of which may be used to express frustration, exasperation, among other things.

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Posted 02/05/12 - 12:04 PM:

libertygrl wrote:
i think facebook merely stumbled on an efficient way of showing acknowledgement or approval in the internet environment - the thumbs up. of course, the thumbs up existed before facebook, facebook merely popularized it. but one of the reasons i have a thumbs up icon in our collection of smileys is because of facebook.

when we communicate with each other face to face, we are accustomed to reading acknowledgement from each other with a nod of the head. the thumbs up communicates something similar, not just to say "yes i approve" or "yes i agree", but also it communicates "yes i understand what you're saying" and, "i acknowledge you".

i think a sick smiley would not be too clearly understood. someone might think "oh this person is not feeling well" rather than "they are sick of my remarks!"

i like the smileys that i've collected along the way, including: sisyphus confused disapproval mad shaking head raspberry whatever any of which may be used to express frustration, exasperation, among other things.

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Indeed. It gets funny when in a face to face communication, your friends say to you( in response to your tart comment): "Sick smiley!" or they say "Facebook like"; in response to your comment they like.


This seems to be a strange reverse of communication. Facebook or Communicator suites are having a say on expressions ( Though it's temporary and mostly in jest) which were taken up in the first place from real world communication.
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